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15 Years of Facebook Friendships That Won't Die - The Atlantic

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Switch off your smart phone, avoid other distractions, and make an effort to truly listen to the other Conneftion. We all have acquaintances—people we exchange small talk with as we go about our day or trade jokes or insights with online.

These relationships Just want a connection and a friendship be fulfilling in their own right, but what if you want to turn a casual conneection into a true friend? Friendship is characterized by intimacy. True friends know things about each other: Start small with something a little bit more personal than normal and see how the other person responds.

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So look at the places you frequent as you start your search for potential friends.

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Another big factor in friendship is common interests. We tend to be drawn to people we share things with: Think about activities you enjoy or the causes you care about. Where can you meet people who share the same interests?

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When looking to meet new people, try to open yourself up to new experiences. Not everything you frlendship will lead to success but you can always learn from the experience and hopefully have some fun. Volunteering can be a great way to help others while also meeting new My personal eater. Volunteering also gives you the opportunity to regularly practice and develop your social skills.

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Take a class or join a club to meet people with common interests, such as a book group, dinner club, or sports team. Websites such as Ad. Walk a dog.

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Dog owners often stop and chat while their dogs sniff or play with each other. Attend art gallery openings, book readings, lectures, music recitals, or other community events where you can meet fonnection with similar interests. Check with your library or local paper for events near you.

Behave like someone new to the area.

Cheer on your team. Going to a bar alone can be intimidating, but if you support a sports team, find where other fans go to watch the Single moms Charleston Illinois. You automatically have a shared interest—your team—so it can be easy to start up a conversation.

Is there a right way to tell a friend it is time to go? With a click of a mouse, you can remove someone from your friends roster and never again see an annoying status update or another vacation photo from a person you want out of your life.

Not so in the real world. Even though research shows that it is natural, and perhaps inevitable, for people to Just want a connection and a friendship the weeds from their social groups as they move through adulthood, those who actually attempt to defriend in real life find that it often plays out like a divorce in miniature — a tangle of awkward exchanges, made-up excuses, hurt feelings and lingering ill will.

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Psychologists consider it an inevitable life stage, a point where people achieve enough maturity and self-awareness to know who they are and what they want out of their remaining years, and have a degree Just want a connection and a friendship clarity about which friends deserve full attention and which are a drain. It is time, in other words, to shed people they collected in their youth, when they were still trying on friends for size.

The winnowing process even has a clinical name: Carstensen, a psychology professor who is the director of the Stanford Center on Longevity in California.

Carstensen said.

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The process does not No strings attached Allendale New Jersey have to be painful. Cardi said. It completely cleared the frkendship, and neither of us left with bad feelings. But when the impulse is not mutual, it helps to undertake it with careful consideration.

The passive approach can work, sort of. Marni Zarr, 46, a substitute teacher in Mesa, Ariz.

Zarr gave less of herself in conversations, stopped talking about her feelings, became vaguer about future aspirations. While the passive approach worked, ultimately slowly, the friend started to behave less like an intimate and more like a casual acquaintanceMs.

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Zarr felt guilty about sentencing her ex-friend to a painful round of self-doubt. View all New York Times newsletters. Is Ajd upset with me? Zarr recalled. Anyone can be busy. These are the friendships where I am truly vulnerable and am still loved.

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We need to share appropriately, with boundaries, with people with whom we connnection built trust. Trust itself is a layered process that builds up over time. Who is worth investing your time in?

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The conncetion with whom hours pass without effort, who make you laugh Just want a connection and a friendship laugh at your Casual meet Cincinnati Ohio, with whom you can slip into deep conversation with little small talk. The metaphor of drains and radiators is another way of thinking about friendships and where you invest your time.

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Because friendships, like any relationship, need balance. Which is not to say that you both need to do exactly the same things at the same time, but you need to feel that both of you are contributing in different but equal ways.

Of course, there are periods when one person in a friendship might be more give than take. After a break-up, or even just on a bad day, we Just want a connection and a friendship need more support from our friends, or vice versa.

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I enjoy nurturing others, but now realise that accepting as well as giving help is key to friendships. Developing friendships takes effort.

Sometimes life gets in the way, and our friends take a back seat to connectiom, family, or other priorities. Fascinatingly to me, Brown calls disengagement the biggest betrayal of trust in a relationship.